I call it the Loser’s Mentality.

Here is how it works.

Let’s say for arguments sake we rate a woman in terms of her looks from a 1 to a 10(which we never do:)).

A typical Singaporean guy will go for the 7(the above average girl) as he thinks the 10 is above his range.

More on that later.

Since most guys think like that, the 7 will have more suitors than the 10(food for thought) so the 7 rejects the typical guy.The guy now thinks that even the 7 is above his level so he goes for the 6(rejected), than 5(rejected) than 4(rejected) and finally, he settles on a 3.
And what does he say to his friends?

Oh, I don’t go for looks I go for personality.

LOSER.

Im sure if Jessica Alba or Angelina Jolie is knocking on your door asking to date you, you are going to say No to them.Puh-leeze.

Why is it Looks OR Personality? Why can’t we go for Both.

A little example.

I used to date this girl who travels around the world to places like Turkey and European countries for Fashion shoots. She is an incredibly beautiful Pan-asian model. She was born with a silver, no lets make it GOLD spoon in her mouth. Meaning, Born Rich. She lives in this Huge Bungalow in Sixth Avenue courtesy of her dad, a Managing Director at a famous MNC.

And when I was dating her, she used to spend all her Friday evenings helping out at a school for the intellectually challenged as well as doing these huge donation drives for the Salvation army during Christmas. She also modeled for free for photographers who didn’t have the money to pay for her.
Are you telling me she doesn’t have personality?Bull.

I have dated some really hot women with fantastic personalities(and I admit, some with horrible ones as well),but it really showed me looks and personality can go hand in hand.
So the next time you hear a guy say they go for personality not looks, ask him, how many hot women has he dated?20?30?then how does he know hot women don’t have good personalities.

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Gambit
Head Instructor
Charm Dynamics

She’s the one.

I can’t live without her.

She rejected me.

I am not fit to be a man.

Sounds familiar? i hear that a lot. And it drives me nuts.

Most local guys put too much weight into a girl’s response to them. If a girl they fancy rejects them, they take it too personally.Bro. It’s not personal. It’s not personal. A girl’s response to you has got nothing to do with who you are as a person.

You might be the greatest guy on earth for all we know. She doesn’t know that. She might have just gotten out of a long term relationship.She might have just failed her semestral exams. Her pet dog might have just died. A million and one things could be happening in her life. You don’t know that.
Her response is just a reaction to the strategy you employed in getting her. If you play a computer game and you died, you press the reset button and start over, this time employing a different strategy.Same thing with women. If you had been trying the same strategy over and over and getting failure. Time to change.

You know the definition of insanity? Well here it is.The definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. And there are a lot of insane guys out there.

Also there’s no such thing as she’s the one. We aren’t living in some isolated village in Africa. This is Singapore. We have beautiful women of every Race, Language, Religion and Creed over here. In Singapore, Beauty is Common.

But to actually have options with beautiful women in Singapore, you need to learn the Art of Attraction. And the Dynamics of Charm ala Charm Dynamics.

These women are Hot. They aren’t going to spend their time with any Tom, Dick and Harry.
You need to attract these women into your life. Fortunately, this is a skill you can learn; just like learning how to drive. The Choice Is yours. Your Future is in your hands.

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Gambit
Head Instructor
Charm Dynamics