Hey fellas. Gambit here, with another one of my scribbling sessions. Over the past few months, I was dating a popular television actress(who shall go by the name of sweetlips due to privacy reasons..those who know me personally will know exactly who;))

At the time I got to know her, sweetlips was in a three year relationship and normal guys and acquaintances who didn’t know my alter ego(as Gambit; Dating GOD..lol..)  told me I had no chance in hell at her, and that she was the kind of girl who would never cheat on her bf. So I decided to take up the challenge.

Bear in mind that at that specific point of time, two other guys were pursuing her, Both from Mediacorp.

Guy Number  1) A guy who had his own “Street Magic ala David Blaine” type show on TV

Guy Number 2)  Known the Nation over for having been a finalist in an “American Idol Type” Singing competition.

Now, this wasn’t another run of the mill competition I was facing. I was up against a boyfriend of three years and two celebrities that the average Singaporean knew about well .That is some heavy duty competition.I blew them both out of the water!

I used every move from my Fundamental Attraction Program(FAP) that my coaches teach as well as several innovative and ground breaking methods I have been using over the last year (where I dated the Taiwanese air stewardess as well as the Playeur magazine model) to get sweetlips to pursue me instead of the other way around. Within a month, I had her eating from the palm of my hands.

Now remember, most people don’t need these kind of X-men like “super powers” if all you want is to date pretty girls. If you just want to date beautiful women, our Fundamental Attraction Program will be sufficient.

These moves and tactics are only needed when you are going after the cream of the crop, Air Stewardesses, Celebrity Actresses, Magazine Cover Models, and it has been tried and tested on every one of them personally by me.

To show that any normal guy can do what I can, I am opening up 5 places in my new Breakthrough Celebrities and Supermodels Apprenticeship(BCSA) programme.

These five guys will first go through my Fundamental Attraction Program by my executive coaches and then be Personally trained by me for the Apprenticeship where they will be tutored by me for over 72 hours of top notch brain numbing Dating Secrets to literally get the cream of the crop amongst women, eating from the palm of your hands within 30 days.

There is a selection process, so if you want in, shoot me an email to gambit@charm-dynamics.com and tell me why you deserve a place amongst the “Special Five”.

I wouldn’t ask ordinary mortals to play with fire like I did with this one, but its just to show the kind of almost superhuman skills one can develop from the stuff that Charm Dynamics teaches.

I literally swept her off her feet like some Romance Novel hero. Usually, I am the one who starts physical escalation with a lady, but this time around, this girl had her hands all over me within our second date.

I still remember our third date when I was making out with her at the back of a cab, tasting her strawberry flavored lips, my hands on her firm bums and I happened to notice the initials of her boyfriend’s name on a ring on her finger and I was like maaaaaan…poor guy..

Yes sexy sweetlips was craaazy about me and it was a whirlwind romance. It was just a fling for me and lasted around 4 months, but well worth it.

Moral of the story is, No situation is unsalvageable, No girl is too good,IF you have the skills;)

Gambit
Founder
Charm Dynamics
http://www.charm-dynamics.com

Dating Singapore girls is a lot different from dating girls from other countries. The upbringing and social culture that Singapore girls are born with is very different from that of a Caucasian in America or a European and Croatia. If you use the methods and techniques you see on television which American actors use, or even worse use the material that they show wrongly in Asian television shows, you are in for a surprise. It will not work on Singapore girls.

In America, women, especially beautiful women are used to being hit on by strangers many times a day and have hardened up to that approach. The women there have extremely high self esteem and the best way to get girls like that is by going in a manner that does not trigger their “Pick Up” alarm.

There is another trigger altogether to think about when dating Singapore girls. Girls in Singapore are not used to being hit on fifty times a day, so even the pretty ones generally have low self esteem .But they are used to guys trying to be nice to them just to get them. Examples include bringing them to expensive restaurants, supplicating to them and sending them home after every date in a bid to impress them.
That is not going to work. There are three major mistake local guys make when dating Singapore girls.

.Listening to female advice on dating
This is huge. If you are fighting a war, would you go and ask your enemy what the best strategy is for defeating him? Of course not. It’s the same thing with dating. With girls at the present having the upper hand at dating, do you think they are going to give their power away by telling you what works on them?

.Focusing on activities that do not increase your dating success
Another key point is that guys in Singapore have been conditioned to think that certain activities will increase their chances in dating Singapore girls. But the sad truth is they do not at all. Pumping iron at the gym, finding ways to make more money, attending relationship course all will never make you better with women. A person looking to get better at speaking on stage can only get good at it by taking course directly related to speaking on stage and getting more stage time. It’s the same thing here. You can only get better with Singapore girls by taking courses that teach you directly how to get better with them.

.Leaving their Dating Life up to Fate
This mentality is prevalent with almost everything a local male does. From politics and work to their dating life. They feel helpless and think that fate decides everything. It’s the kind of mentality that will lead to under achievement and a feeling of powerlessness their whole life. Make a choice to change your dating life forever and stick to it. You will be amazed at what you can achieve.

I call it the Loser’s Mentality.

Here is how it works.

Let’s say for arguments sake we rate a woman in terms of her looks from a 1 to a 10(which we never do:)).

A typical Singaporean guy will go for the 7(the above average girl) as he thinks the 10 is above his range.

More on that later.

Since most guys think like that, the 7 will have more suitors than the 10(food for thought) so the 7 rejects the typical guy.The guy now thinks that even the 7 is above his level so he goes for the 6(rejected), than 5(rejected) than 4(rejected) and finally, he settles on a 3.
And what does he say to his friends?

Oh, I don’t go for looks I go for personality.

LOSER.

Im sure if Jessica Alba or Angelina Jolie is knocking on your door asking to date you, you are going to say No to them.Puh-leeze.

Why is it Looks OR Personality? Why can’t we go for Both.

A little example.

I used to date this girl who travels around the world to places like Turkey and European countries for Fashion shoots. She is an incredibly beautiful Pan-asian model. She was born with a silver, no lets make it GOLD spoon in her mouth. Meaning, Born Rich. She lives in this Huge Bungalow in Sixth Avenue courtesy of her dad, a Managing Director at a famous MNC.

And when I was dating her, she used to spend all her Friday evenings helping out at a school for the intellectually challenged as well as doing these huge donation drives for the Salvation army during Christmas. She also modeled for free for photographers who didn’t have the money to pay for her.
Are you telling me she doesn’t have personality?Bull.

I have dated some really hot women with fantastic personalities(and I admit, some with horrible ones as well),but it really showed me looks and personality can go hand in hand.
So the next time you hear a guy say they go for personality not looks, ask him, how many hot women has he dated?20?30?then how does he know hot women don’t have good personalities.

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Gambit
Head Instructor
Charm Dynamics