Wow .

Honestly , ever wondered what Relationships are for ?

When you got into one , im sure you had thoughts .
Or maybe you didnt , maybe you liked the girls so much you didnt had time to think of why .

Well here’s a perfect answer .

The purpose of a Relationship ,
Is to test out whether the existing parties are marriage material .

Honestly , i couldn think of a better one .

With that , Doesnt it change a whole lot of a person’s perspective ?

Besides being blinded by “love” , what if you knew that the purpose of Getting into a relationship was to test out whether she’s the one for you .

And knowing that , what if you knew she’s not the one from the beginning ,
But you’re yet attracted to her .

Mostly people cant understand the two similar but oh so different things in a relationship .

Being ONLY Attracted means you cant resist the person , but you’re not comfortable with her , mostly cuz she’s just being a bitch and using you .
Being ONLY Comfortable means , well , literally , means you’re comfortable with the person , but you’re not so attracted to her though .

So what happens when i mix the two together ?

Love ? Pretty Much .

But 91% of All relationships only survives on one of the above factor .

Either you’re just plainly attracted to the girl , and for most Singaporean males , mainly for her looks ,
Or You’re comfortable with having her in your life , that fuzzy warm feeling .

Think of your past relationships ,
What seriously attracted you to her ? Looks &/or personality
Or was it mainly just a comfort play ,
cuz you just pretty much like the thought of knowing that someone likes you .

What if , you’ve been with a girl for 5 years .
and after that , she met a guy in a club , who she’s more attracted to , and after some talking ,
she realized shes more comfortable was able to build more of a connection with him thdn of you because you have your weird quirks .
She knew from the start that you werent pretty much THE ONE , but she’s just waiting and hanging on to see if you were the best that life could offer .
So She pretty much just found a reason to leave you .
And she did .

and there you go , 5 years of your life . Gone .
Especially when you’re one of those boyfriends who couldn leave her sight .

Well , consider that a blessing in Disguise .

Because , rather you waste those 5 years , and find out the truth ,
thdn to have married her , and find out 10 years down the road that you both actually was just in for the sex .
but thdn you couldn leave cuz you have 3 kids and a family to account to .
and thdn you would have no choice but to shackle yourself to this for the rest of your life .
and you’d love to try to see the brighter side of life . which often doesnt happen .

So , why are guys still out there still pretty much zombiefied love drunk machines ?
Cuz after they find out the heart wrenching truth ,
they took no action .
Its as if Life did them a favour and they are blaming God for it .

Dont blame the Gods for your her leaving you ,
Blame yourself for the inability to attract and build proper comfort with her .

Cuz just imagine that you can .
That you know exactly how to attract and build deep comfort with almost anyone you see .
Imagine you could be that guy in the club , who stole your girlfriend ( Named Gambit and Diablos ) , Just for a day .
How would life and ” Relationships ” turn out for you .

Cuz honestly , Gambit and I dont get into relationships .
No , we just dont .
Not cuz we dont wanna hear the orignal bullshit from girls ,
okay maybe we really dont ,
But more importantly its that we find no reason to .

You must know , that the same emotions can be generated whether or not you’re in a relationship .

Cuz almost certainly we know whether if she’s THE ONE straight away .
But we most certainly have mad ass standards .
cuz believe it or not , we ARE looking for the one .
Its seriously not bout the looks ,
Well , it was , but now that we get surrounded by them almost every other day ,
Not bragging , but seriously , its overrated .

She’s a Daredevil
A feisty smart ass who’d be able to have witty comeback lines all the time .
Who genuinely makes me laugh , who doesnt give a fuck bout what the world thinks ,
and probably she would be able to make a tazer out of a disposable camera just to electrocute the shit out of me ,
She jumps and bites me for no apparent reason , and in the ballroom she’d still be able to sparkle like a star .
Oh , and did i mention she’s probably a kickass musician , and looks like a victoria secret’s model .
Except that she’s also profoundly in love with philosophy and that she’s an avid artist of Literature .

Well that’s just to name a few ,
As you can see , unless its a precise mixed clone of Angelina Jolie , Cheryl Cole , and Katy Perry , im not giving in .

Nor am i marrying the HB 8 i met , dated , and made out with last week .

To meet a girl like that , what are the chances huh ?
But chances are , we have the equal amout of chance to meet THE ONE .

So what if you did meet THE ONE .

At the rate the typical Singaporean dude is going .
Would you know what to do ?
How the hell are you going to attract her ?
Not to even mention having a sweet relationship with your soulmate standing right in front of you  .

If you arent going to improve your social skills to maintain a girl like her .
Chances are you wont get her .
That you will settle for much less of what you want ,
and end up Marrying one of the next 10 confused girlfriends you’re going to have for the next 10 years of your life .
Pretending  SHE’S THE ONE .

Relationships , why get into them when you know she’s not the one ?
Like i said ,
You must know ,
that the same emotions or even more ,
can be generated whether or not you’re in a relationship .

And If , THE ONE and you dont work out .
Its perfectly fine .
There’s more THE ONE to come .

Point is , get into a relationship only if you seriously mean it .
If not , dont waste your time .
Go make yourself a better man so that when the one DO past by .
You’d know exactly what to do ;]

With Love ,
& Rockefella

Diablos

Executive Coach
Charm Dynamics .

Seriously ? Asking Women Bout Dating ?
Its a suicide mission .
As if you havent lowered your own ego enough when you ask them ever so inmasculinely .
Of which the answers that you’re getting from them are fucking smoke bombs .
And THAT , is probably going to get you into some serious merry go round whirlpool of deep shit which the girls probably make you believe is candy .

” Be the sweetest thing . ”
” Listen to her ”
” Honey”, “Darling”, and “Sweetheart” are good. “Old Hag”, “Lameass”, and “Bitch” are bad. ”
” If you did something wrong or even if you didn’t, apologize ”
” Hugs and kisses must be given at all times ”
” The male must remain calm at all times, unless the female wants him to be angry or upset ”
” Do what she says ”
” Shower her with gifts “

Okay , that’s enough . to kill you .

Remember how we were talking bout the orbiters ?

Atm machine orbiter ,
Free food orbiter ,
Chauffeur orbiter ,
Cool dude orbiter ,
Emotional orbiter ,

(Btw If still you dont know what;s an orbiter by now , its time to get the free consultation along with the free cd from our coaches.)

and the list goes on ..

and on ..

Right , so anyway , Is there a  link ?
Between ,
those seriously awesome usual tips from the girls ,
and those of the purposes that the orbiters serve .

HMMMM …

That’s right boys .
They are shit testing you to be an orbiter .

If you fail , you end up listening exactly to what they say and end up being an orbiter .

As much as a ” Gentlemen ” that most Singaporean males are .
Are you going to tell a girl to dress up like a victoria secret’s model every day if she asks you for advice ?
No ? PRECISELY . You kinda wish they knew but you never tell them do you ?

Thdn why possibly do you think that when you approach a girl to ask them bout dating advice .
that they would give you the plain truth .
well they may attempt to give you the truth , but they almost never tell you how .
Just like how the average Singaporean Dude would tell them they like kisses

But they’re seriously hoping that they could scream cowboy rides .

You cant expect them to  say they fall for guys who just refuses to hold their handbags ?
Or that they are actually attracted to guys that are the ladies man ,

which is why they ARE the ladies man .

In fact , they almost NEVER portray it like that of all the attraction switches we talk about in the Free Cd .

The Message Here is Clear .
Do Not Ask Girls for Dating Advice .
Especially when Charm Dynamics have the Answers .

Unless you’re Gay .

With Love ,
& Rockefella

Diablos

Executive Coach
Charm Dynamics

Dinner Dates .
Great Food ,
Great Ambience ,
Great Music ,
Great Restaurant Design
Great Service .

She’s attracted . yes ?

NO .

Its gtta take more thdn that for girls to want you .

As Explained in the previous post of how dating agencies would set up the best of dates
but if you couldn rev it up a notch , there wont be a point of the date in the first place .

In Fact ,

DINNER DATES ARE THE WORST .

She’s sitting opposite of you ,
She’s eating ,
You’re eating ,
There’s nothing really to talk about ,
Very little chances of you Kino Escalating especially when you dont know how .
And you think she’s going to kiss you with the stench of swedish meatballs from your mouth afterwards .

Unless you know how to make the environment to suit to your advantage like I do .
Cuz i have to admit , sometimes i get hungry . and a hungry pick up artist is the last thing you want on Earth .

There are tonnes of better alternatives out there .

Window Shopping ,
Paintball ,
Ice skating ,
Live Bands at Esplanade ,
Swimming ,
Sun Tanning

are just to name a few .

These are fun filled , kino jammed packed , buying temperature pumped events .
Anytime you can just wrestle each other to the floor ,
Have her sit on your shoulders
Shoot her butt with the paintball gun , leaving a cute bruise .
Or throw snow balls at each other .

All of these are ready to get her emotions pumping and jumping all over .
And definitely going to leave her a kick ass impression of the date .

Compare all these to a boring , lame ass , dinner date .

Seriously ? Its the last thing on the list i would do .

If ever im hungry , 80% of the time  ill just grab a burger with her and run off to someplace else that’s sweet , mad , and of definite sinister fun .

Well if there’s ever a Dinner Date ,
It will be her treat .
In rewarding you for the mad stuff you did the other day .

With Love ,
& Rockefella

Diablos

Executive Coach
Charm Dynamics .